Monday, February 7, 2011

PROVERBS

PROVERBS



1. Four things on earth are small, 
yet they are exceedingly wise;
the ANTS are a people without strength,
yet they provide their food in the summer; 
the BADGERS are a people without power,
yet they make their homes in rocks;
the LOCUST have no king, 
yet all of them march in rank;
the LIZARD can be grasped in the hand,
yet it is found in kings' places.  (30:24-28)

2. If you have been foolish, 
exalting yourself, or if you have been devising evil, 
put your hand on your mouth.
For as pressing milk produces curds,
and pressing the nose produces blood,
so pressing anger produces strife. (30:32-33)

3. Give strong drink to one who is perishing, 
and wine to those in bitter distress;
let them drink and forget their poverty and remember their misery no more.
Speak out for those who cannot speak, 
for the rights of all the destitute.
Speak out, judge righteously, defend the rights of the poor and needy. (31:6-9)

4. Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain,
but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
Give her a share in the fruit of her hands, 
and let her works praise her in the city gates. (31:30-31)

5. If your enemies are hungry, give them bread to eat, 
and if they are thirsty, give them water to drink;
for you will heap coals of fire on their heads
and the Lord will reward you. (25:21-22)

6. With patience a ruler may be persuaded, 
and a soft tongue can break bones. 
If you have found honey, eat only enough for you,
or else, having too much, you will vomit it. (25:15-16)

7. Under three things the earth trembles; 
under four it cannot bear up:
a SLAVE when he becomes king
and a FOOL when glutted with food; 
an UNLOVED woman when she gets a husband, 
and a MAID when she succeeds her mistress. (30:21-23)


Sunday, February 6, 2011

How to make the best use of TIME?

How to make the best use of TIME?


Take time to think, it is the source of power.
Take time to work, it is the price of success.
Take time to play, it is the secret of being ever young.
Take time to read, it is the foundation of knowledge.
Take time to be freindly, it is the road to happiness.
Take time to love and be loved, it is the privilege of God.
Take time to laugh, it is the music of the sour.
Take time to pray, it helps to live in Christ and be led by His spirit.



Dear freinds, let's just reflect and see if we are taking time to do the above things. I am sure we hardly give time for such kind of deeds or actions. But Christ was always there giving time for all. He took time to be with His Father in His prayer. He took time to be freindly even to the sinners, He gave time to love and to laugh with the ordinary people of His time. So as leaders and would be leaders in any field we need to take time for such things and must make best use of the time given to us. remember time and tide waits for none.

Saturday, February 5, 2011

Example Teaches, Not Books

Example Teaches, Not Books


The authorities is a part of China decided to introduce football as one of their sports. So they bought rule books, drilled the teachers in them, and told them to go out and teach the subject.

The boys memorized the rules, the teachers gave lectures and even drew diagrams on the blackboard. Then there were written tests and almost everyone failed. They were discouraged. 

Then a young sports man form Europe visited the place immediately made out why their efforts had been in vain.

"Good heavens," the visitor exclaimed, "you'll never learn to play football form books. You've got to learn by playing..."

So he bought a football, took the boys out onto the field and within a couple of hours taught them more than they had learned in the last six weeks from books."

Msgr. Arthur Tonne
Tonic for the Heart in 1000 bottles Vol. 1
-Frank Michalic , SVD


Dear friends, at times we do act like the Chinese authorities who tried to teach football only by following the rules and books. We try to go by the rules but it is not only through books and rules we learn things but through our daily experiences. I remember as a child I  learnt to keep away from the fire after having touched it. I am sure you too learned the same way.

We at times are so worried about the rules and regulations that we forget to perceive that our examples are the best method of teaching our students as well as our companions. This is the basic point Msgr. Arthur Tonne is giving us in his story "Example teaches, not books."
Even Jesus Christ taught His disciples more by His examples than by  teaching through the Torah. So friends lets try to teaches others through our examples than through books. 

Friday, February 4, 2011

GOSSIPING

One day someone ran up to the wise man Socrates and whispered, "Socrates, listen to this bit of gossip about your friend."
"Wait!" quickly answered Socrates. "Have you first passed it through the three sieves?" 
"What three sieves?"
"Yes,, my friend, three sieves. Now let's see whether what you want to tell me passed through them. The first is truth. Are you sure that what you are going to say is the truth?"
"Well," stuttered the man, "actually I heard the story secondhand."
"Hmmm,"answered the wise man. "Well, let's go on and see whether it can pass through the second sieve. Is what you are going to say, kind?"
"Not exactly," said the informer. "In fact it's the opposite."
"So that takes care of that. Now tell me:is it necessary?"
"Hardly."
"Well, if what you want to tell me is neither true nor kind nor necessary, skip it."



From Tonic for the Heart Vol 2

Dear friends, how do we act in our day to day life? Are we like Socrates or like the other person who is eager to gossip about others? This story gives us a good lesson, do we need to gossip or is it necessary to listen to others gossiping about their friends? 
I am sure all of us do enjoy and take part in gossiping about the third person but let's try to imitate Socrates and his theory of three sieves. Is the gossip true, kind and necessary? Let's try to remind ourselves next time someone who comes to gossip and when we gossip the three sieves of Socrates. Let's stop gossiping.




Thursday, February 3, 2011

ECCLESIASTES



1.Vanity of vanities, says the Teacher, vanity of vanities! All is vanity. (1:2)

2. Better is a handful with quite than two handfuls with toil, and a chasing after wind. (4:6)



3. Better is a poor but wise youth than an old but foolish king, who will no longer take advice. (4:13)

4. A good name is better than precious ointment, and the day of death, than the day of birth. (7:1)

5. The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning; but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth. (7:4)

6.It is better to hear the rebuke of the wise than to hear the song of fools. (7:5)

7.Do not be quick to anger for anger lodges in the bosom of fools. (7:9)

8.The heart of the wise inclines to the right but the heart of a fool to the left. (10:2)

9. Even when fools walk on the road, they lack sense, and show to everyone that they are fools. (10:3)

10. Banish anxiety form your mind and put away pain from your body: for youth and the dawn of life are vanity. (11:10)


Wednesday, February 2, 2011

FAILURES THAT MADE GOOD

FAILURES THAT MADE GOOD

Napoleon failed as an essay writer, Shakespeare as a wool merchant, Lincoln as a storekeeper, Grant as a tanner - but none of them gave up. They moved into other fields, tried other things for which they were better suited, with the results we all know. 
- Christopher Notes
Tonic for the Heart in 1000 bottles, Vol. 1
by Frank Mihalic, SVD

Dear friends how do we take our failures? Do we look for other things as the above mentioned persons did or do we just brood over our failures and give up hope and label ourselves 'failures'? We need to move on with failures as someone rightly said, "Failures are the pillars of life". It is through these experiences we learn in life. So let's ask ourselves when ever we fail to do something, 'What have I learned from this failure?'

Tuesday, February 1, 2011


CHANGED RESIDENCE



This story is told about a pastor of a small congregation. He kept a meticulous register of all his parishioners. So convinced was he of life after death, and of the promises of Jesus about eternal life, that whenever a parishioner died, he did not delete the name from the register. He simply wrote after the person’s name, “changed residence. Gone to live elsewhere!”

Those belonging to us who have died have not gone away. They have simply gone ahead.
There is the womb of life, and the fullness of life. It’s only when a person has reached that third state that s/he has become what s/he was created to be….